Why does rejection cause attraction?

Rejection can make us question our own sense of self worth and motivate us towards detrimental behaviours such as investing more time and energy into winning that person back. It becomes the point of focus and you enter a warped sense of reality where you truly believe the person can be all you hoped for.

Why does rejection make you want the person more?

The feeling of rejection can break your heart and make you question your worth all at the same time. When you feel a pull to the person who rejected you, realize what youre wanting is most likely not that person. Its reassurance that youre worthy of acceptance.

What emotion comes from rejection?

Several specific emotions arise from the prospect or presence of rejection, including hurt feelings, loneliness, jealousy, guilt, shame, social anxiety, embarrassment, sadness, and anger.

How do I get over the feeling of rejection?

Here are some tips to get you started.Remember that it happens to everyone. Validate your feelings. Look for the learning opportunity. Remind yourself of your worth. Keep things in perspective. Figure out what really scares you about rejection. Face your fear. Reject negative self-talk.More items •11 Dec 2019