“The attraction may be physical or mental. It can be their sense of humor, their smile, or the way they move. The spark lets you know something special is happening in relation to this individual.” So, how do you know if you and your date are both feeling the spark?

What is the spark in romance?

The spark is a certain feeling of sudden heat--even alarm--that seem to start in the heart region (literally--I feel it underneath my sternum somewhere). It quickly migrates to the netherparts (i.e. those covered by my loincloth).

How can I get a spark with her?

2 Focus on Her Keep your focus on her when she talks, and dont look around the room, check your phone or send out text messages. Maintaining eye contact is a key way to spark attraction, Gunn says. Give her your undivided attention and make her feel heard.