How can I win an older mans heart?

12 Ways To Win A Mans Heart That Have Absolutely Nothing To Do With SexTell him a secret. Let yourself be vulnerable. Encourage him to be vulnerable. Get weird. Urge him to get weird. Make him laugh. Cross an item off his To Do list. Cook for him.More items •Sep 17, 2015

Why do men pull away when they are falling in love?

Men (and women too) sometimes pull away when they are falling in love because of different fears about attachment and beliefs about self-worth and being unloveable come forward. Men pull away in response to fears of being abandoned, rejected, or not being good enough.