Why so many people are scared of love. So many people are scared of relationships because they have a fear of love. What lives inside of this urge is the subconscious awareness that to love means to open yourself to the possibility of getting hurt by losing the one you love or being rejected by them.

Is falling in love scary?

Falling in love can be exciting and thrilling, but for many people, its also scary. After all, trusting someone with your heart is no simple task. What if it gets broken? If youre afraid of love, it may even stem from deeper fears of vulnerability, getting hurt, abandonment, or failure.