If youre missing a conversation/match, one of the following reasons might be why: You may have blocked the other person. The other person may have blocked you. The other person may have deleted their account.

How do you know if you are blocked on OkCupid?

We do not tell someone that you have blocked or unmatched with them- you simply disappear everywhere for them, including any conversations you may have had with them. In order to view OkCupid profiles, you must be a logged-in OkCupid member.

Does messaging work on OkCupid?

Visit their profile and send a message Once youve liked someone, youll see a message button on their profile. Click to compose an introductory message and send! Please note: You can only send one initial message, so make it a good one!