How long before a guy will ask you out?
Friends will say things like oh weve seen the way he looks at you, hes definitely keen. As a rough rule, two months should be a safe amount of time to broach the subject. But every relationship is different, so if it feels right earlier, go for it.
How far ahead should you ask someone out?
A week would be proper especially when youre not gf/bf yet. Then you can text to remind her a day before your date. Less than 3 days notice would seem impolite to me.
How many days ahead should you plan a date?
So, plan ahead. Slotnick recommends offering three days to set up a date — a subtle “You free Tuesday, Thursday, or Sunday?” gives options, without being too open ended. Once the day is locked, consider some date options.
Is it OK to confirm a date with a guy?
Yes, you do always want to confirm a date ahead of time, even if other folks tell you otherwise. Confirming your date is polite, it shows interest, it avoids miscommunications, and it puts your mind at ease.