Getting your first online dating message started in the right way is extremely important. You want to sound friendly but not crazy. I would recommend starting out with a simple greeting telling the person hello, ask them how they are, and/or tell them your name.

How long should you message online dating?

“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”