The 10-date rule merely states that men are most likely to seek relationships with women theyve dated at least 10 times. These are real dates, not hangouts or coffee meet-ups. They are dates in which you go and do something together in public. Men want connection, true connection, as much as women do.

Why does the 10 date rule work?

The 10 Date Rule gives you time to get to know someone before making yourself vulnerable and throwing in the very powerful sex ingredient into the stir fry. Yes, yes, I know some women can compartmentalise sex and love and keep the two separate.