A good first message is sweet, and short. One hundred words is about right: long enough to include a compliment, to say what caught your eye about their advert, mention something you have in common, and to ask a leading question.

What should I write to match?

Write Your Match Profile In 4 Easy StepsStep #1: Capture her attention with an intriguing story or anecdote. Step #2 – Describe your job in an interesting way. Step #3 – Describe a few of your hobbies and passions in life. Step #4 – Describe the type of woman youre looking for.

How many messages can you send on Match?

Match.com IM users can initiate messages with no more than 30 different Match.com IM users per day, but may send an unlimited number of messages to those 30 users. Additionally, they may receive an unlimited number of messages from an unlimited number of users each day.